Hello everyone. Even though the somafera forum is long gone, I still talk to enough somaferans to keep learning new things about all of this. And one of the new things I have learned about in recent times is the combination of an empathic nature with a berserker one. And the guy I learned about it from has kindly agreed to write something on the subject. So here it is.
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Hello all! Wayland asked me to write something to give some insight into how i experience Berserkergang. The best way I can describe it would be to identify myself as a Berserker-Empath. I 100% identify as an empath, while i 100% identify as a berserker as well. I cant really say what came first but i remember as far back as a child having different experiences that could fall under either category.
The first time that i remember blacking out was in kindergarten. I had a problem with a bully on my school bus, who was much bigger than me, and I told my father. He said to me “You better knock his fucking block off.” I remember him being very calm, but adament about it. I have no recollection of what happened with the bully and I. I just remember that he didn’t mess with me anymore. When I got older my parents informed me that I really hurt him. So much that his parents came to our house. I don’t remember any of that at all.
My household had substance abuse and some domestic issues that led to my parents getting a divorce. During my younger years, without my father, I was a lot more timid and allowed kids to push me around to a certain extent. I still got into fights but I wasn’t as confident. While this was going on, my brother and I got to a point where, on different occasions, he might be thinking of a song and I would sing it and vice-versa. That was normal for us. I never thought anything of it until i got older and it started to happen with other people. It’s not something that i’ve mastered….i don’t even know if i want to master it. I just know when it happens with people, i have to really examine who they are so I don’t pick up negative things like habits and thought patterns. Some people have energy so good that just being in their presence is soothing…..but i digress.
So, in the 4th grade, 5th grade, 6th grade i would get into altercations with other kids while just trying to stand up for myself. 7th, 8th, 9th and 10th grade i got into full fledge violent fights. I actually bit a another kid in the 7th grade on the face because i so mad that he hit me with a brush. 9th grade is what really stands out though. I was terrified of being bullied in highschool because i knew how mean kids could be and i knew that i probably wouldn’t be able to handle it.
It was the first time that i noticed that i blacked out during a fight. i had no recollection of what happened but I was covered in the other guys blood and my knuckles had cuts from punching him in the teeth. I only remember him getting within three feet of me and then i was being held against a wall being told to calm down by the biggest guy in the room. I’ll never forget the look on his face, like something was wrong with me. I thought the other guy got the better of me until people were telling me that I won the fight. i don’t remember throwing any punches at him at all. I do remember the teacher getting between us, though. I think that is because she was innocent, but it was very brief and that is the only thing I do remember.
The next year, I got into a fight with another guy who was a bully. He had been just talking $hit to me for over a year. One day, i woke up and decided that that was the day that if he said anything, i was going to do something about it. i got off at his bus stop and overwhelmed him, very easily. When i walked back to my neighborhood him and his friends were waiting on me. In my memory they, jumped me but didn’t hurt me…according to my brother and my neighbor, they could not overwhelm me. To this day, I’m not 100% certain what happened.
My senior year is when I had my first of what I would call a ” jedi moment” . I think that would be the equivalent to your Dagaz moment, if im understanding it correctly. During the summer after graduation, some friends from school were playing tackle football at our old middle school field. It was something they did and i came that day. I remember one guy was blatanly tripping people. i was nrevous because i knew that if he tripped me, i would hit him and then i would have an issue with the other guys because they were from the same neighborhood. On the next play, i was running the ball and while i was scrambling, the guy was on my side and i FELT when he was going to try and trip me and I jumped over his foot with perfect timing.
During my years in college is when I really noticed things, mostly things that involved ESP and the such. I’ll try to keep it short but basically, i noticed that i was sensitive to my surroundings and people, the energy, the vibrations. This is also when i started to learn martial arts. My first trainer opened my eyes to how little i knew about fighting, i eventually was able to get the better of him. This also continued with a friend who had been practicing martial arts since he was a child. Even though my technique wasn’t as clean, i could hang with him and even hurt him (on accident) on different occasions.
During my time in college, i noticed that when i would have these anxiety attacks but they would be beneficial. on one occasion, i got challenged to a foot race and i was so nervous that i had one of these attacks. Afterwards, i beat the guy that challenged me and even a member of my college track team. At the time, i was a smoker so it took a lot of people by surprise. I knew that there was something there but i couldnt identify it until now.
Through the years, i had started to go to combat sports gyms: boxing, mma, kickboxing and could hang with and even outlast people that had been there longer and even beat some of the more seasoned guys. After going through Wayland’s research, I have demonstrated quite a few of the special traits of berserkergang, such a being able to reset and outlast people who were supposed to be in better shape. i train and work out often but i have also had my bouts of exessive smoking and drinking do to my own mental health issues and still would be able to overwhelm opponents and sparring partners.
Being energetically sensitive, i would be set off very easily by things in my environment or people. One situation is when someone had an anxiety attack next to me and i ended up having one but i could see his WHY behind his attack. He confirmed when he spoke. I had developed a way to use this during fighting. It is a meditation called the hakalau. It is a visual mediation where you engage your peripheral vision with your central vision. You all call it Wide angle vision, if I’m not mistaken. (Wayland, you have a lot of good research.) The purpose of the hakalau is to hold this vision for as long as possible. After my own research, i’ve come to find out that this meditation can help induce a trance. Originally, i learned it to see auras lol….and i thought that the better i got at using my peripheral vision the more control i could get over my peripheral nervous system, which houses the sympathetic nervous system, which controls the fight or flight response.
i didnt think much of the parasympathetic nervous system except for healing and recovery. I didnt understand how they could work together until recently. I brought to Wayland’s attention, the site that spoke about the Flow State and how similar it was to the gangr. One of the aspects that were really interesting was using the same peripheral exercise to induce a flow state and that helped me as well. I started to do more research on it’s function and uses. As i learned more about using this peripheral vision meditation, i also learned that my perception of time could be altered this way. One thing i did was a clock exercise, where i would get a digital clock, unplug it and plug it back in and while it was flashing, i would try and change the rhythm of this. i became successful and good enough at it where i could do this while fighting. i like to think that this was a Madspace initiated gangr and as emotional content became higher, the more i would get into it.
I havent gone all the way into it to be honest due to fear of really hurting someone. Spritually, i feel like the spirit of deceased fighters, coaches and warriors are with me when i train and when i fight or spar such as Muhammad Ali, Sugar Ray Robinson, Cus Damoto, Bruce Lee. I like to follow simple priniciples in my training: Strength, speed and right action. Same as you all. I try to stay consistent with my conditioning. My thinking is that if im in really good shape, when i elevate then i will be even sharper, stronger and have more stamina in that state. When i elevate and i use the hakalau, i will see colors around objects. Things look brighter. Having more control over my sense of time, i do believe that this puts me in a low level Warfetter and training so much in right action helps excecute to the point where i can overwhelm a seasoned fighter.
I’m still trying to find a balance between being empathic and being a berserker. Being so easily triggered doesn’t help because i get enraged easily if i don’t police myself. One occasion, i felt another berserker (he didn’t know, but he understood the power of the adrenaline) energy when they were in an aroused state enough that i elevated as well. There is so much more that i could add but i don’t want to write a novel unless anyone wants to know more or have any questions.
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In some ways, a story any berserker can relate to. There are certain things most of us share in common. I find the empathic angle to be particularly interesting. It’s not something I ever ran across in the Pack days. I do keep coming back to the connection between having an empathic experience and the hakalau. Why does engaging wide-angle, peripheral vision trigger an empathic state? The systems do not seem connected, on the surface. Understanding why could unearth useful information about how all of this works.
Anyway, thank you for sharing this all with us.